What Not To Do To Win An Ex Back

We all know that you are clueless right now on how to win your ex back. It is alright to feel bewildered or annoyed. The worse you can do right now is to feel bad for yourself. Break-ups are as natural as life, like it’s a part of our life cycle. Yet, it sucks to feel bad ending a relationship that you always thought that will last forever. That’s why many breakups leave lovers wanting to get the ex back. But then getting back your ex is a huge task. In making a step to win back the heart of an ex takes a lot of precision planning. So precise, that you need to become a smart bomb with pinpoint accuracy. The idea is not to push your ex back which is the worst thing that could happen. Before you read further, take a deep breath and a glass of water and relax. You’ll thank your lucky stars that you Googled this article.
The main reason that people end up failing to win back their ex is because they are doing it wrong. If you act based on your instincts most often you will do things that will make things worse. You will end up more frustrated and you will start act irrationally. The fact of the matter is that you need to do things correctly to gain favorable results. Let us now look at the things you are NOT supposed to do in order to win your ex back.
1. Call, text or emails are a no-no. You may feel that the best way to win your ex back is to talk to him or her. Wrong move! It will make only things worse. The fact is they are at a stage that they want to have some space to think things over. It would make them more annoyed if their phones kept on ringing all day or their cellphones went crazy with tons of text messages. This will actually cement the fact that there is really a need to part ways. It will convince your ex that breaking up is the best thing to do. Don’t let that suggestion ruin your effort to win her back.
2. Stalk them. Okay this is going too far. Communicating is already bad. Stalking and annoying your ex is way, way, way too much. It will convert the morsel of affection that remains in your ex’s heart to become a huge molehill of hatred. Would you like to be at the receiving end of a stalking sortie? Of course, not– right? So be sensitive, let them realize what has happened and let everything run its natural course.
3. Make yourself stink. The worse thing that you can do for yourself is to let yourself stink to high heaven. We all know that you’re depressed but it is not an excuse not to take a bath. Get rid of that ugly beard and stay in shape. Make yourself attractive while waiting for the time you get to meet your ex again. This will make him or her realize that you are too gorgeous to let go and will change his or her mind about the break up. Please, put on some deodorant will you and brush your teeth.
4. Contacting friends. Do you actually think contacting his or her friends will make your ex come back? Don’t tell me you do! This will only annoy his or her friends and may bad mouth you. It will only reinforce the fact that the break-up is such a good idea. Peer influence may be a good idea but not in this case. Build your case first before appealing your case with the friends. You can appeal your case in the most natural manner you can possibly do.
Remember, your ex may not be interested in getting back. You have to accept this fact. In any case, following the tips will make you a better person and survive the break up with your dignity intact and head up high.